For the Love of Books

Do you remember when you loved reading? When you went to the library and picked up the next Nancy Drew mystery, simply because you remembered how much you loved the last one you read, and the one before that, and the one before that. Or popping into a bookstore and picking up a book. Holding it in your hand, feeling the heft or maybe the lightness of the book. Feeling the cover, letting the smoothness, the embossing, the subtle dips glide under your fingers. Smelling the fresh print (my personal favorite). Then simply buying it because it was by your favorite author, in your favorite genre, because it felt good in your hands, or simply because it was a Tuesday and you needed to home this book. This piece of art, this work of fiction, to help you, to hold you, to engross you, it called out to you.

And no one’s opinion mattered.

Young woman with her head resting on one hand while reading an open book at a table, depicted in a soft, minimalist line drawing with muted peach and blue tones.
“Young Woman Reading” by Alexandre-Louis-Marie Charpentier, public domain.

And mine doesn’t either.

I’m reading books in a certain place and time. In a specific headspace. Because I’m happy, sad, or because my therapist told me to (yes, Sophia, I’m finally reading the book). You will never be me. I will never be you. Every book speaks to us differently, whispers to our soul, nourishes our thoughts. Or not. That’s the point, the entire gist of this conversation. Books are to be read, explored, and discussed. They are made to inspire, to challenge, or to entertain. So, why, Thoughtful Reader, would we crush the very spirit that handcrafted it by imposing a star on it? It has disheartened me every time I’ve rated a book anything below four stars. How could it not carry that much more weight for the author who spent many a day and night crafting that piece of work?

It is for this reason I have decided not to provide star ratings on books anymore. I will discuss with you. I may even say something along the lines of this book was or wasn’t for me. But I will not emblazon it with stars like fireworks in the night sky. Not anymore. To honor my soul. To celebrate the authors. Whether the book sparked joy, provoked thought, tested my intellect, or did none of those things will be seen and heard in the words that slip through my fingers. The words here, they are my art, they are my song of songs. I hope they will lift you up, inspire you, and perchance, make the change and dim the sky. For stars are not made by reviewers to punish, chastise, or lift up authors, but they are made by God to inspire each of us.

Until next time, Thoughtful Reader.

7 responses to “For the Love of Books”
  1. Lisa Mandina (Lisa Loves Literature) Avatar

    I rarely finish books that I would give below a 3 star rating, and even when I DNF I make sure to say that I think it is something I had an issue with, but that others might like it. Because I always feel like you are right, everyone reads a different book!

  2. Phyllis Jones Pisanelli Avatar
    Phyllis Jones Pisanelli

    I love your article and was just thinking about that very same thing. I am thinking of not using stars on my blog.

  3. Rebecca (the Farm Wife) Avatar

    Rating books is such a sticky area. I tend to use star ratings for myself, even though I am leaving them on my Goodreads/blog, to help distinguish the ones I really liked versus not as well. But I do try to be aware that not all books are for everyone, and sometimes the “problem” is me.

    In a vaguely-related vein: this idea that you and I don’t read the same book even if we are reading the same book is why I am far more accepting of movie/tv adaptations “taking liberties” when translating the page to screen. There’s no way anyone else could *see* the same things as I see when I read, so why would I expect a movie to reflect that? 🙂

  4. Michaela Avatar
    Michaela

    It is so hard to leave lower ratings. It makes me wish I didn’t pick up the book at all.

  5. M Jean Pike Avatar

    I like your thoughts here, Carla. When choosing books to read I pay very little attention to the number of stars someone else has rated it. And as an author, I really don’t like when someone throws some stars on my books without giving their thoughts. Especially if it’s a one or two-star rating, lol. I have given three-star ratings to books. To me, that says I mostly enjoyed it but did not find it exceptional. I rarely rate a book one or two stars though. I would rather not give it a rating at all.

  6. Kelsey Gietl Avatar

    I’ve heard of more and more authors/readers not providing star ratings anymore and just giving their thoughts, for many of the reasons you mentioned. There has to be real, legitimate reasons before I’ll rate something below a 4. Otherwise, I just don’t rate it at all. Readers still take the average rating into consideration though, so for now, I’m going to continue rating the 4 and 5 star books to help keep their average rating high.

    1. Carla Bruns Avatar

      That’s a good thought, Kelsey. I just finished a book that (if I were rating), is a clear five star for me. I think there’s tone of my review should reflect that though. I also have a favorites shelf on Goodreads that I will continue to use.

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Why I don’t do star ratings... All authors, all books, have someone who labored over them and someone who loves reading them. A star rating is an arbetrary system that is only relevant to the person who provided the rating. I’m always honest with my opnions and feelngs about a book and how it resonated with me. You can hear that in the words that I pen. I explain more about this decision in the article For the Love of Books.


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